As a girl who was raised in a very traditional way, I believe
that each gender has a specific role, and I completely disagree with the saying
that the roles should be equal. From the beginning of time, these gender roles
have set solid regulations of how society should be. Am I saying that women are
just for having kids and men only good for providing for the household? Of course
not. What I am saying is that we should not be too quick to dismiss that these
roles were set for a reason. I am a firm believer that everyone should have
equal educational opportunity. Everyone, whether man or female should be able
to work and do something that they love. The concept of woman staying home to
take care of the house and children springs up from the fact that women in general
are more patient and just have a different way of doing things. They naturally
blessed with motherly and womanly instincts. That is why most teachers and
nurses tend to women. We only seem to be focusing on the gender roles here in America
and neglecting the fact that cultures around the world view gender roles differently.
For example, if you tell an African man to stay home and take care of the
children and cook, you would be looking for his trouble. I am not saying that African
men can’t cook or take care of kids, in fact, some African men I know cook
better than the women, but they grew up with the belief that they must be the
man of the house and provide for the every need of his family financially. We should
at least try to keep a little of these regulations that have been kept since
the beginning of time. There was a reason each stereotype was assigned to each
gender. Evidence are even in the Bible for what each gender is here for and
their roles.
I agree with you grace. People should not have to believe that everything in life is set ahead for them. Each individuals role should be of their choosing depending of there situation. I necessarily don't see why gender roles are bad and I do indeed support them but I don't expect others to and if they don't it doesn't bother me much either.
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