judgement

I believe judgement is a huge thing because it is dealt with in our everyday lives. I mainly deal with this at school but it occurs online, at home, in public, etc. I myself am very shy and I've been this way for as long as I can remember. I'm shy not because i want too but because since elementary I had to deal with mean kids and immature teens judging me. I don't think bullying and judgement is the same but I see how they can be somewhat similar. Bullying is teasing people and giving them a hard time but judgement in my term means assumptions about a person. Judgement for example was assuming things they don't exactly know is true but choose to believe it anyway. High school was the worst where i had realized everything and everyone is based on judging others. If someone made a mistake that made them "dumb" and will automatically be spoken of by groups or the internet. If a girl is "unpopular" and has a different personality than others people would automatically assume she's "weird." If a girl is seen with a group of guys, she's a "hoe/slut" etc. If a teacher is mean to students they are seen as "lonely" the list goes on. We live in a society filled with assumptions and judgement. When will anyone let people be and mind their own selves? The only way this can be resolved is for everyone to stop making assumptions of others when they don't know what they deal with on a daily basis.